Nobody dreams of a greedy man, but it often happens that life leads to just that. How to recognize a miser in time so that you don’t have to regret it later? Now we will share with you a few phrases that hide a man’s habit of saving on everything.
Kyiv. Ukraine. Ukraine Gate – May 9, 2021 – Lifestyle
“Gift for me!”
Imagine this situation: a man comes to you for a birthday without a gift and even without flowers. In his defense, he declares: “the gift remains with me.” In this situation, be sure that no gift can not wait. In front of you is a miser who will sit quietly on your neck. It is likely that in time he will begin to teach you how to provide for your family.
Men of this type do not consider it necessary to pay for your order in a restaurant (it does not matter what stage your relationship is at). Most likely, they do not understand at all why to go to a restaurant, if you can buy groceries in the store, and at home, the woman will cook everything herself.
Such representatives of the strong half of humanity even come to visit a woman empty-handed. This is not a necklace, but an elementary cookie for tea. Men are waiting to be fed like in a restaurant, but they are not ready to spend even a little money.
You can recognize a miser without going to a restaurant. Even in transport, he will never buy a ticket for his lady. For example, he can explain this by the fact that today he does not have a change with him.
“We divide the costs in half“
Greedy men are trying in every way to reduce their personal expenses, stating that all joint accounts should be divided in half. They drank coffee – the bill was halved. We went to the resort – the bill is halved. It should be noted that in some countries this is the norm. For example, in America, women pay for themselves in cafes or restaurants. They are even offended if the man wants to pay the bill himself. It is believed that such an action shows its superiority. However, we have a completely different mentality.
If you live with a greedy man, he wants to make you invest more in the budget. It is not a fact that your story will not be similar to the one present in the anecdote when a guy and a girl rented an apartment in half, and then it turned out that this is his home.
“Not in the money of happiness“
Saying this phrase, a man seeks to convey to his wife the idea that she should be happy next to him, even without having any material benefits. If she has a different opinion, then she is mercantile.
Do not forget that happiness is to live comfortably. And comfort, as you know, is provided by money. It is more comfortable to live in a large rather than a one-room apartment. It is more comfortable to walk inexpensive shoes, rather than in the pair that was bought on sale. It is more pleasant and useful to eat good food, instead of one pasta.
If a man is trying to convince you that happiness is not about money, you can be sure that he is just saving for you and preparing you in advance for the fact that in the future he will not make an effort to earn more. However, the belief that happiness is not in money is not only greedy but also lazy.
Happiness is really not only in money but without them in our time is impossible.
“Why do you need this?”
Want to buy a new dress, but immediately hear: “why is it for you?”. This is the reaction of a typical greedy person who will never spend an extra penny on a woman. Of course, this is not a situation where you spend money in vain on all sorts of little things. We are talking about those cases when the purchase is really needed.
Pay special attention to such situations, when on the first date a man reacts in a similar way to the two sauces you ordered in a cafe, popcorn in the cinema, to the words that you need to update your smartphone. Keep in mind that in the future he will tightly control your income and expenses.
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Source: Ukrgate
