One of the most popular questions for a psychologist is what to do if your feelings have cooled down? Psychologist and coach Olena Adamova gave advice on how to light a fire in married life and make the relationship happy.
Kyiv. Ukraine. Ukraine Gate – October 08, 2021 – Lifestyle
“Let’s be adults and stop waiting for the relationship to always be at its peak. Life in a relationship – in a couple, in business or friendship, develops in a sinusoidal way: sometimes dense, sometimes empty. But we must make sure that they do not reach the point and have not ceased to be married, interesting. And even worse – dead, when you do not want to hug, be together, but want to put a partition between you in bed, ” – says psychologist Elena Adamova.
Five rules to help light a fire in a relationship:
- No claims
Remember: no one owes anyone anything. You just have to be happy, then you will ignite each other.
- Praise for the good
Note the simple things your partner does well: “what a delicious dinner you cooked” or “how beautifully decorated the room is.”
- Pleasant memories
Remember the moments when you were both happy – it always brings together and gives a positive.
- Items “What do I love?”
Write them down and exchange these “papers of happiness”.
- An expression of gratitude
Nice words can be said in person or registered and sent an SMS. This act will surprise and delight your partner.
In addition, Elena Adamova advises not only to communicate, but also to flirt with each other as you did at the beginning of the relationship – in the most romantic period, or as you would do with a new partner. Bring new pleasure into your family life!
Source: Ukrgate
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